We're Not Sixteen Anymore: A Baby Boomer's Adventures with Online Dating by Becky Andersen

Online dating - nowadays it's getting tough to run into someone who hasn't tried it, or met someone they have dated or married on it. I found my husband-to-be through online dating, and the stories I could share leading up to that meeting could make anyone laugh like crazy while shaking their heads thinking "I'm so glad that didn't happen to me." This book was the baby boomer's version of my experiences.

Becky Andersen makes for a great storyteller, as I found myself immediately sucked into her tale of how her husband passed away years ago, and her family encouraged her to give online dating a try. It reads as though she was sharing these stories over a meal or drinks. I found myself laughing (actually out loud) as she dove into the different dates, sharing with everyone her thoughts, fears and misunderstandings. Her horse riding experience had me gasping for breath I had laughed so hard. I also found myself cringing at some of the naive thoughts and actions she had taken that could have potentially put herself in danger (having a date meet her at her house because she thought he sounded nice, or getting in a date's car to go somewhere else after meeting at an agreed upon spot, etc). I also found myself scratching my head when she went on a date with a "jerk" but at the end was upset that he didn't shake her hand, hug her or try and kiss her. If you think he's a jerk then consider yourself lucky that he drove away!

For me to be that upset or concerned (or in tears of laughter) means that the author has drawn me into her world and made me care. For that reason, I recommend this book to anyone who has tried online dating, has thought about online dating, or who can appreciate stories of a woman's dating experiences. It just goes to show online dating is the same for many women, despite what age you may be. Some of the references may be lost on younger readers, but that is not a reason to overlook this hidden gem!

I received this e-book from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

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